Black & White & Gray All Over - Teens

My husband and I have 3 daughters 14, almost 12 and 10 years old.  A house full of tweens and a teen have left us asking ourselves a few questions lately.  How do we raise them in this age of technology when everywhere they turn they are getting inundated with some request for a social media site, endless available apps, movies and music.  The long list of things to check on and watch for goes on and on.

Of course everyone has opinions of what to do and what not to do when your kids reach this age.  Depending on the setting you hear anywhere from Instagram is alright but not FB, FB is alright but not twitter, I let me kids listen to Justin Beiber he's alright because (fill in the blank), or I let my kids watch Hunger Games because they know it's fake it's not real killing, Twilight is simple romance or they watched Harry Potter because everything is Disney magic anyways, monster high dolls are just dolls like Barbies, of course boy/girl parties are alright at 14 because I've taught them not to bad stuff (whatever line they have arbitrarily set & told themselves the bad stuff is).  The lines and rules can make you dizzy with decisions.

I'm reminded of 1 Corinthians 10:23 "Everything is permissible, but not everything is beneficial.  Everything is permissible, but not everything is constructive."

I could write a ton of what my own convictions are or speak from some of my soap boxes but why? I mean, really, they are just that my opinions.  Rather, around my house these days I keep directing my girls to the Word of God which is always correct and always perfect.  Never a word misspoken…just Truth. My opinions are just that, my opinions.

When faced today with a crazy insane amount of choices thrown our way as parents.  Every day we are faced with questions from our kids for a new social media site to connect to, or an new app, a new song, a new book or movie.  There are so many lines, we as parents, are left asking ourselves if that is a black or white answer or is that a gray zone.  Lately, when we we are asked if they can do something I have turned it around and now ask them a question.  Is what you are asking us to do permissible or beneficial? 

Not in a legalistic sense.  Simply from a heart perspective on what will benefit them and not hold them back or make them stumble in an area.

The heart is the wellspring of life and we are to guard it.  We know that out of the heart the mouth speaks….so those are truths we have learned from the beginning. To follow that line of thinking out, whatever we are putting in our hearts will come back out….eventually and inevitably. 

While, you can do all the gray areas that are permissible in your life I leave them with the question…will it benefit your life?  And if yes, how?  

We are teaching them at this age to ask God for themselves what He has for their lives. Like I said, my oldest is 14.  I have 4 years left before she goes away to college and will be making so many of her decisions on her own.  I want her and and my other 2 girls to learn the voice of the Holy Spirit speaking to them on their own.  To know right and wrong and to discern what is alright to put in their hearts and what is not.  To decipher the difference between things that are permissible and you can get away with and the things that are beneficial.  I know a few adults that could benefit from learning this lesson, too.  It would save them a world of hurt and addiction. 

As you are parenting your tweens and teens today, take a moment and ask yourself that same question for your own life.  Is this that I am about to watch, listen to or do simply permissible or will it be beneficial in my own walk with God and then teach your kids that same concept.  Give yourselves and your kids a Biblical gauge to remember when making choices. 

Permissible or beneficial? Your choice.

***As a side note,  if you've said yes to anything especially social media continue asking them questions, check up on their accounts to see what is going on.  Always be involved and connected…don't be oblivious to what is going on under your own roof.  Keep them safe and never be afraid of shutting down an account or deciding to change your mind and say no if you see a potential danger…it is your right and responsibility as a parent***

To be inspired….

This was the year I felt God laid on my heart to launch Inspire 2013.  I wanted it to be a place separate from any one specific church and a place to gather as a group of ladies as the body of Christ…not specific to any one denomination but rather in unity as Christians.

A place to come worship, hear from God a word specific to our lives, and then give opportunity to serve in our community and beyond.  A place to allow God to heal our lives and then go beyond our own pain by bringing purpose to it all by helping others.  

If any of you really know me, you know my heart is to consistently encourage hearts. Period. Whatever that may look like.

I wanted God to inspire a group of ladies (and kids in our highlighted ministries) that we are called to more than just the mundane day to day life.  That our pain and brokenness does not have to define us.  We are daughters and children of the King.  We are more than conquerers.  We are called.  We have purpose.  God has given us a heart to follow Him.  I wanted to encourage our hearts to press in and take a hold of that which God has taken a hold of us for.  His glory.

And, yet, somewhere along the journey of this past year of my life I realized that I needed that too. As I was wanting to encourage all of you, God was encouraging my heart as well.  The beauty of pouring yourself out is that God pours His living water back into you only to be poured out again. 

I am beyond thankful that God put this vision in my heart this year.  I am unbelievably grateful to God for being able to meet so many amazing people through the ministries we have helped this year.  I have been inspired by all of you and am so glad we are now friends! I love how He, in His perfect timing, brought so many amazing people into my life this year.

I'm grateful for friends I have known for a long time and for friends I have just met this year that have both come alongside of me, encouraged me and helped me with Inspire.  

I am thankful for those of you God placed around me, who have the same heart as I do.   I love that God has connected me with some amazing girls who share my same heart, vision and passion for helping people while bringing purpose from pain. 

Thank you for helping me, sharing your heart and your vision with me, and encouraging me to not give up but keep going. 

I am truly the one who has been inspired by all of you who have your own ministries and by those who are just starting to step into the things God has laid on your hearts to do.  I love how God is working in all things at all times!  I love that He can use me and can use anyone with a willing heart.  Your stories you have shared with me have inspired me and challenged me to press in even more.

Thank you all who have come to one or all of our events or helped with an event by being a part of something that crossed denominations in the name of wanting more of God and wanting to give back.  

Merry Christmas to all of you and Happy New Year!  We are planning and praying for the direction of Inspire 2014.  There are some pretty cool ideas coming our way so please pray with us too, that God would lead and direct us in this next year.  

We can't wait to see what God calls us to next!

TOP 10 THINGS I'VE LEARNED THIS YEAR.

1.  My husband is a saint.  No really.  You should meet him.  He is the template for the kind of guy I hope & pray our girls will marry.  He has a dry sense of humor that he uses at all the right moments, yet listens and gives great advice.  He will let me hide behind him when needed, he will take the fall, he will stand back when he knows it's my turn to fly, he will hold me, he will wipe away my tears (both happy and sad), his talent is unparalleled, he is the strongest man of God I have ever met and yet will never tell you about any of these qualities….humility and integrity he lives out but never announces.  See? A saint. I have grown to love him even more this year (if that were even possible).

2.  Friends are like a box of chocolates.  All completely different but completely necessary for different events, moods, deep talks and laughing.  Every girl needs a variety of friends with different perspectives and personalities to hang out with for a myriad of reasons.  Some will keep you grounded.  Some will let you dream and some will dream with you.  And, heck, every girl needs all of that, right? Oh, and consider getting rid of the bad ones for you...who likes the flakey coconut ones? Yuck. 

3.  Forgivness is choice. Period.  People can wrong you. People can hurt you.  People can say words that cut deep into the core of who you are.  But at the end of the day forgiveness is a choice and to choose not to forgive only hurts you.  So,just forgive.  

4.  You can't fix the world.  This lesson may spill over into 2014 and beyond.  Oh, the balance in wanting to change the world while realizing when it is time to let go because it is well beyond what you can do.  It’s alright to keep learning this.  It means you want to help...just know the balance and the lines not to cross.

5.  Eat more carbs.  Exercise it off. Count calories again the next day and splurge a bit again….and repeat (oh, and this is done best with a friend).

6.  Find something to laugh about at least once a day.  And give yourself permission to not be perfect but let it go from time to time.  Some rules are meant to be broken.

7.  Yes, you can start something big without a person giving you permission.  You can be a world changer and nobody but God gives you definition or permission to do so.  Another man is just that…another man or woman.  Only God alone has the plans for your life seek Him for that and nobody else. Not everyone is going to understand your actions…that's alright…you have to answer to God not the naysayers of the world anyways.  God defends. Let Him do that while you walk out what He tells you to do.

8.  Protect your child's innocence even when all the other parents are saying something is alright….go with your gut if you feel that it isn't! Remember in jr high when all the kids would tell you, well everybody's doing it? Did you listen? No? Good for you, repeat and teach your kids that kind tenascity and resolve.  Yes? Well, nows the time to redeem yourself and teach your kids they don't have to listen to peer pressure….God gave you those little kids as gifts, protect them and their innocence with your life.  It's your main job. Do it like there is a huge bonus on the line.  Because there is.  It's called their eternity.

9.  While on the topic of kids.  Love God in front of them.  Love your spouse in front of them.  Not with your words necessarily, but rather with your life and actions.  Kids listen better with their eyes.  You can impact and inspire them without ever saying a word.  They are watching and doing what they see play out in front of them at home not what they are told.

10.  Love unconditionally.  Love deeply even when others aren't looking or when nobody understands your reasoning, show love anyways.  Give your life to something you believe in.  Give to others.  Allow yourself to feel your pain, and heal, then feel others pain enough to share the hope given to you by God that not all is lost but rather there will be joy again in the morning. Sometimes things are learned best during your darkest hours only to share what you've learned in the morning.

Rinse and repeat in 2014.

The LOST forgiveness.

I was watching an old episode of LOST a while back and it was a scene where Sayid was captured by a husband of a women he had formally tortured.  Her husband was going to bring justice by torturing Sayid now.  After many beatings, the wife walks in and sits as Sayid begs to let him go and pleads with her that they have the wrong guy.  She begs him to remember her. To validate her pain. To acknowledge the anquish he put her through.  He finally acknowledges it and breaks down crying stating that he has seen her face in his minds eye every day since he tortured her and there were no words that could express his sincere apology accurately.

You then expect her to bring her husband back in and beat or kill him but instead she says a line I remembered from the last time I watched that episode years earlier but was reminded of again.  She said.  

I will let you go.  

I will tell my husband we have the wrong man. You will be free.  He was crying and with a puzzled look on his face he simply asks a question. Why? Why are you letting me go. Her response? Because I refuse to stoop to your level and hurt you like you hurt me so as to be a captive by unforgiveness.  I forgive you for what you did to me. You cannot make me a prisoner to unforgiveness any longer. I forgive you. Now leave.




It was a powerful moment of extreme forgiveness and her determination to not let unforgiveness hold her back or captive to it.

The night in which Jesus was betrayed, he took bread and broke it....

We have heard this scripture a million and one times if you have grown up in a Church.  But it hasn't been until recently that I realized the weight of that first line.  The writer wants us to know something pretty amazing here.  The very same night when they were all coming together and sharing a meal Jesus knew this was His last supper but He also knew Judas was going to betray him by taking money and giving Him over to the Roman guards yet He served Judas anyway. He was (is) God.  He knew who was sitting at the table with him.  He served him anyways.  

He forgave Judas before Judas even needed forgiveness.  The coming betrayal was something we needed to read.  We needed to know that Jesus knew that.  Yet in that same night, despite His coming betrayal, He broke bread with Judas anyways. The very same night Jesus was betrayed was the same night He not only broke bread with his betrayer,  but Jesus didn't let that hold Him back from what He was called to do that night.  He goes on to die and rise again for all of humanity....despite their sinful humanity to be set free from their sinful humanity.

There are bumps and detours in our lives.  There is pain, devastation, abuse, brokenness, wrongs done to us.  Words spoken to us. Intentional and unintentional wounds inflicted to us by other. Losses. Betrayals and flat out lies, at times, made up about us.  Broken friendships, marriages and families.

If we are to model Jesus' life. We are to forgive.  None of us are being betrayed unto death.  But harboring unforgivness can be a spiritual death. It can devastate a life.  It can hold you captivate.  It can isolate you.  It can trip you up by focusing on what was done to you.  It can get you stuck in an endless cycle of trying to right the wrong.  To fix that person and get them to get them to understand what they have done to you.  It can get you to come down to their level, making you just like them. A captive to pain and unforgiveness.

Let it go. Forgive.  Even when they don't deserve it.  Even when they don't understand or sometimes even acknowledge the pain they inflicted upon you (that is the hardest thing to do, I know, you feel like forgiving them gives them the upper hand that, in some way, you forgiving them tells them what they did to you was alright).  It wasn't alright, but God will deal with them.  You are only responsible for allowing God to free your heart of unforgiveness and move on in all that He has called you to.

Forgive them today.  Don't stay down there with them.  Be set free today.  Forgive them, let it go.

It is what Jesus calls us to do.  It's what Jesus did and continues to do with all of us. There is freedom for you in forgiving. Take that step.

Facebook: Fact or Fiction?

     I was in line at the store the other day and I overheard a couple of ladies talking about their "friend's" post. They went on and on about how she is always bragging and had posted about going out with some other friends.  Apparently these two talking about her were not invited but rather saw pictures of the girls night out posted and they were not happy about not being invited.  They felt slighted even though, from the sounds of their convo, they seemed to dislike this chic but yet their jealousy over the event and not being invited was pretty clear.

     I had to laugh a little and think of the ridiculous amount of times I have heard that same story from countless girls (from tweens, teens, young adults and beyond).  Clearly, this crazy phenomenon of social media has enhanced so many of our social circles (can you denote my sarcastic tone)? 

     I thought of the endless and hopeless conversations I have had with girls over their sadness about similar situations....non invites to patio parties, GNO's, birthday parties, retirement parties, school parties on and on.  The seeming torture of seeing pictures of events they weren't invited to by people they secretly didn't even like and "friends" they did not get to hang out with.  So many people lament over this crazy thing we call social media for a million different reasons.

     My question is simple. Are we really being that social and developing in depth relationships online?  A place where you can embellish, exaggerate or flat out lie without many who can or will challenge you on it.  Is this even healthy?  Typing away behind the mask of the internet.  No consequences. Just statements, parties and pictures.  Making your world look picture perfect and dreamy.  It is a junior higher’s worst nightmare and yet it goes well beyond pimples, glasses and braces. Ah, yes, now it goes well into adulthood...parties you weren't invited to, people you didn't get to hang out with, lives you wished you had, perfect lives and families paraded for all to see.  Realty inflated. It is the equivalent of being held back in junior high for eternity!

     A recent study I read in Huffington Post was challenging this exact concept as the article was talking about the negative consequence this online display is having on our youth (and I would add to that...our adults, too).

     Clearly these couple of girls are not alone in their feelings over their 'friend' and her posts.  Reading braggadocios posts about a fake  perfect life or the most amazing life ever when, in all reality, you just got off the phone with your real life best friend or sister after crying about how horrible your marriage is, your friends are, or your family is but then you post how amazing everything is.  Or in real life telling a friend how much you really do not like some person and list their flaws and next thing you know they are having a great conversation on a wall stating how much they love being friends. Or playing favorites with your friends by publicly praising one instead of the other....can't a private phone call or text let them know they are your favorite friend in the whole world instead of making that statement for all to see, leaving the other friends wondering why? It breeds insecurity for even the most secure girl. I think a new social media rule should be if you can't say the next postable statement to your closest friends and family without them laughing and telling you that is a flat out lie or gross exaggeration than you can't post it.  Can that be the new rule?

     There is an old adage moms used to say to us in junior high that I feel we, in this age of social media, have veered far from.  If you don't have something good to say, don't say anything at all and that doesn't mean make up something good when it really isn't that good....just don't say anything.  

     Don't get me wrong.  I love social media just as much as the next girl but what I absolutely hate is hearing how inadequate, unloved, hurt or angry it makes so many people.  You could use the line of thinking that you are not responsible for how everyone else takes your posts and you are right. Your page. Your posts. True.  I would argue, however, if you are posting with a vindictive, ulterior motive to 'get back' at someone, make them jealous or hurt someone passively aggressively, then just stop.  Conversely, if it is truth and sincere then post away with all your thoughts, jokes, event PR, invites and pictures of your Pinterest dinners and I will too. 

     My husband has often said, Amy, your FB "friends" are mostly cyber friends who do not have a vested interest in your real life.  Real life friends sit across the table from you with a cup of coffee, listen to you, cry over spilled milk with you, or rejoice over tiny milestones with you.  They know the in's and out's of your personality and love you still the same.  They don't talk to you often through FB instead they talk through face to face visits, phone calls and texts. 

     They are the ones, when they unexpectedly see you somewhere, they run up to you, hug your neck and start talking a hundred miles an hour to catch up (sometimes in Target, Sarah P. :) ), rather than duck away down an aisle in effort to not see you or have to talk to you.   Cyber kind of friendships are generally superficial but are the first ones to get their panties in a bunch if they find out they have been unfriended by someone because, dear Lord, that would mean their number of 'friends' have gone down. 

     Real friends (vs cyber social media friends) are those who know your birthday without a cyber prompt or know when an important meeting is coming up even if you don't post about it, or they know that you have crazy week planned even though you never breathed a word of anything online, or simply the miles, states or countries need to be overcome by keeping in touch through social media (those friends are awesome too even though the miles keep you separate for most of the year).  

     They are the people who will spend hours laughing with you (or at you depending on the subject) or even more hours listening to your pain, hurt and disappointments and then cheering you on to press in and keep going.  They go beyond the trite "praying" post in response to a real life problem...they take the time to actually pray because you are a friend who is so important to them that they couldn't imagine their world without you in it. 

     So, to all the girls (and maybe a guy or two) that has been hurt by social media, just take this one piece of advice.  

Believe only half of what you see and nothing that you hear.” ― Edgar Allan Poe (on social media sites anyways).

     Rather, go find your real friends (the ones who have stuck with through thick and thin and the ones you have just met and love spending time with too) and grab a cup of coffee. Realize the reality, that cyber "friends" are generally not real close friends and that nobody's life is that picture perfect. 

     Know that true face to face meaningful friendships will never be replaced by a FB/IG/Twitter account and that fictional posts are just that...fictional. True perfection in life and relationships comes from not having to be perfect but from being loved despite your imperfections by those who love you and challenge you to keep pressing on in this messy and very real life and that is a fact.

For Every Action.

The dust is finally settling down from the absolute insane craziness of life in the last few weeks. Selling, closing, building, buying, closing, packing, moving and Inspire.

Last week I was trying to focus on about 10 too many things! I knew I was leading up to our last Inspire event of the year and for several weeks, I kept thinking of ways I could sum up this last year of Inspire. I wanted to give an overview and explain the heart of what I tried to accomplish through all of our events and outreaches. To no avail. I could not articulate an accurate enough description of what I had been trying to accomplish.

Our event came and went and I could not give the kind of description I wanted to give. The event went amazing and our guests were awesome. I was pleased that it did what it was suppose to do. Bring awareness and opportunities for action. 

However, I was left with an empty feeling that I was not able to articulate a clear enough description of what Inspire had meant to me. I left thinking maybe I wasn't meant to explain and share with everyone what had taken place in my heart over the year since I wasn't even sure what had taken place. 

I went on from Friday night and didn't think much about it until Sunday morning when this clip was played as an opening to our pastor's message.  The clip opened with words "Inspired by true stories" and a million of emotions flooded my heart as I realized that countless numbers of people had taken this same journey as I have been on these past few years, yet I never realize what I had been trying to do...Take a moment to watch this clip by Linkin Park. It is a powerful video is a story of what this little boy did with the pain and loss of his dad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ScNNfyq3d_w

Isacc Newton was quoted as saying "For every action, there is an opposed and equal reaction". Such a true and applicable statement for things well beyond science.

The very word Inspire means to stir, to motivate, to animate, to influence by divine power.

After meeting so many amazing people this year I began to realize that we are all trying to bring something from something. All trying to bring action from an action that has happened in our lives.  Sometimes we choose a negative action but sometimes we are divinely inspired to bring a positive action or change.  A God inspired action.

To Inspire, you must be inspired.  I have learned that the majority of things we choose to do in life, is a direct relation and/or reaction to something that has happened to us in our lives.  We are so many times compelled to make a difference because there was something we felt was wrong that we needed to make right. From one action we are inspired to take another action. We set out on a quest to do something, bring meaning, make a point, bring purpose, bring healing and many times bring closure.

When we are faced with enormous trials in life we have a choice.  We choose to shrink back and become bitter or we choose to stand up fight through it, turn it around and become inspired to bring meaning out of a horrible event in our lives.

As I watched the video, I realized that so many times this year I wanted to prove a point to myself, that not all was lost in my life.  That even in brokenness and pain, God could still use this life of mine...but now at the end of this year of Inspire I have come to realize that it wasn't that He could use my life despite my brokenness and pain...He could use my life because of my brokenness and pain. I have come to realize that my focused, myopic and, at times, unrelenting drive to make a difference in this world didn't happen because I was talented or any more special than anyone else.  It was because, from the action of loss in my life, I so desperately wanted God to bring His opposite and equal reaction from that event. I have somehow wanted God to work through me to bring life from that death I felt so deeply. I have met so many people this year all inspired by that same motivation.

Isn't that the very nature of God though? Bringing life from death. Such the beauty of who He is. 

I am and will be on this quest for life.  Asking God to bring meaning from both the deep loss and the mundane events of life.  From changes to monotony, in all things I want Him to Inspire me to get up and do something, make a difference, be the change and live the life He created me to live, cracked glass, pain, joy and all of it together for Him!

Be inspired to do the same....



 


 

A Change of Seasons

"There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven: 

a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot, 

a time to kill and a time to heal, a time to tear down and a time to build,  

a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, 

a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them, a time to embrace and a time to refrain, 

a time to search and a time to give up, a time to keep and a time to throw away, 

a time to tear and a time to mend, a time to be silent and a time to speak, 

a time to love and a time to hate, a time for war and a time for peace. Ecclesiastes 3:1-8" 

 

And you thought this was just a song your parents listened to in the 60's. 

 

I love how September brings a sense of order to our lives as everyone gets back into their school and work schedules. Life begins to take on its organized form again. For this text book first born girl, as sad as I am to see the warm weather leave, I am always happy to organize our time after the fun filled chaos of summer is gone.

 

With so many changes of seasons going on right now with many people I know, I had to stop and reflect on how seasons change in each of our lives sometimes by choice and sometimes maybe not so much by choice. Schedules are familiar and bring both comfort and predictability.  As a rule, most people like it when our boats don't get rocked.

 

However, even with the fall schedules shaping up familiar, predictable events, there are times in life when your predictable season shifts and changes with or without notice.  Life keeps moving forward but names, places, events, and locations can change.

 

We've gone through our share of shifts and seasons these last 5 years when we thought we had hit our stride in life, planned it all out perfectly and  thought we were just going to go nicely along on auto pilot (funny of God doesn't do cruise control) our scenery, instead, kept changing.

 

Changes started and continued when my husband started his own business, my dad died, my girls changed schools, our church and being a part of worship changed, and now we are moving from our home of almost a decade. One change was a domino effect in several of the other changes.

 

Seemingly every time we've turned around in the last 5 years we were walking through a change and into another season.

 

With each season of activity and change something is seemingly lost (it's not, it is just placed somewhere else), something is gained and something is learned. 

 

When things change it leaves us with a few questions and you are left with a choice to either trust God that He will work it all out or trust something else not as reliable like possibly your emotions. Confidence put into our emotions, our circumstances and situations, or in our seasons will disappoint us.  All those things can and will change but God never changes.

 

This is what my kitchen looks like right now.  A complete mess in disarray with no organization at all to it.

As I stood looking at this mess I had to laugh and think of how this is what I have felt in my life several times in the last few years and maybe you can relate. In the midst of change sometimes our lives feel in disarray much like how my house looks like right now in the midst of packing up.  Everything is placed in the wrong spot, I can't always find what I'm looking for so it seems lost, and everything has to become a mess before there is order to the chaos. I thought of a good life lesson here. In this literal mess and my change of many seasonal "messes", my frame of mind races to figure out how to put everything back the way it was instead of resting in the fact that God knows exactly where everything belongs, where everything is going and will lead me through the chaos, mess, pain (fill in the blank) to where He wants me to be. 


I am gently reminded that in life when you're in the middle of changing seasons, maybe it's not suppose to go back to the way it looked before...it's not suppose to go back to the way it was even though it was familiar. Maybe He truly orders our steps and wants to direct us like His Word says. He does do new things in each of our lives. Maybe in the middle of each change God simply wants to show you His love and faithfulness. Know the fact that He is more than enough for you in each season of life no matter where you've been or where you're headed and believe that there are often seasons He is brings you through to birth the next season of your life.  


My kitchen may look like a mess right now (much like my literal life did in many of my changes of scenery and seasons of the last few years) and maybe when I get to our new house my china and glasses won't be in the same cabinets as they are in now and so it will look a bit different than it did here at this house. But God is here and God is there in that new house too.  He had plans here that served their purpose just like He has plans for our new house too.  Just like He will show you His purpose and a plan in each of your seasons no matter the difficulty level of each change when you follow Him.


Turns out when you move from one season to the next, physical things may be changed or moved around but one thing always remains (did you think I would get through a blog without quoting at least one song? I am chomping at the bit to sing again), God always remains and He so gently teaches us to trust Him in and through every season of activity He has planned for us under the sun.